Legacy of shame?

To be honest, my words were a little stronger than the title here this afternoon, however after mulling things over / steaming / ranting, it became obvious that the object of my frustration could not be truthfully a generalisation – therefore the following comments are (I would dearly wish to hope, but will probably be proved wrong), specific and localised.

I seem to visit a lot of people – funny that – but most are not regular church goers.  Those who profess to have a faith, are I find more often saying things like, ‘The vicar wouldn’t do this’  or ‘Me mam never went to Church after such and such an event.’  Families will talk happily of days spent singing in choirs or being involved some way or another in church activities, until some event.  The latest made me ashamed to belong to this institution.  The doors of our churches have been shut in the faces of too many people, the hurdles, hoops and obsticles that churchmen (they were all men in those days) put in front of people who were seeking God, a blessing or simply asking questions about meaning in their life were out of reach for many, making God seem distant and uninterested.

It is amazing that some still kept faith in such situations.

It is shameful on those who rejected them.   I just feel empty and sad for those who were denied, angry at those who felt it their place to judge and make choices for others.

~ rhannu os ti isio ~ do share ~



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2 responses to “Legacy of shame?”

  1. Richard Avatar

    I take it you heard about this disgraceful happening: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/7926694.stm
    When I angrily linked to it on facebook I was amazed to find some support for this action. I might not be a vocal proponent of inclusivity as the church’s calling, but I’m certain that welcome, if nothing else, should be one of our starting points. And yet we can be so unwelcoming. Shame is, sadly, the only word for it.

    1. stubiedoo Avatar

      Different disgraceful happening, but also shameful!

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